Narcissism = Cheating

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Narcissism = Cheating

I once heard “Fear is the heart of Love”

What better to talk about when it is the fear of not being your own favorite!!!

The things you do to make yourself “bling bling”...

Falling in love with yourself can be scary for sure!

There is a thin line between a person who loves them self & Narcissism, so we should definitely love our-self no doubt about it! There is no question that you will be loved if you love yourself because you come across more confident & catch the right attention.

It is not just the person themselves but the environment they move around which makes a person build an ego. What do you call a woman taking a million selfies? We have made them Queens... hence proved!

(no gender bias)

Time for the “Ugly truth”

Storytelling - Alias Jasmine a complete barbie, all the guys used to fantasize of this hot chic... but she was already taken & committed in an exclusive relationship. We will call the stud “Lucky” was the man in Jasmine’s life, but before that Jasmine was in love with herself! She would stand infront of a mirror for hours to get ready to go to any damn thing. She was way over her head & would insult people at gatherings that started becoming a nasty habit... When something was going against her she would use her charm or make a big deal to divert the thing in her favour. She used to throw her weight around because she was very popular amongst people. Many a times she would stage a drama to get her way...

The Ego massage comes in play when you start encouraging this in a person on an emotional give away, it initiates when you don’t notice it & then slowly it becomes a demon inside that eventually lands up a person in a cloud of Narcissism. But sadly she never made friends with her demons!

She got so lost that she thought she can getaway with anything, so one day when Lucky was on his way to the club he passed by Jasmine with another guy which crushed him & he could never get over that again... Jasmine was unapologetic to the situation considering that this is the way she wishes to live her life, she told him that if she has a desire to fish for other guys then there is no point of the relationship! While loyalty was a joke to her but this poor guy lost all trust in love. He has baggage & is sure that Love doesn’t exist! The irony is that he is still in love with her & keeps chasing Jasmine however both are still dwelling on the fact if they can find love now?! Is this going to be a fake relationship or can they overcome this episode

History has so much to decide your Future...

Hip to be Square

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Hip to be Square

You are Hip if you are in your skin as your own natural self which is seen by the world as real as the Sun that has no purpose but to shine... If you come across as innocent as a child not having any facade then you shall be the flame which burns in the dark to give everyone vision!

It is the relation you have with your inner self & the unshakeable attitude that brings along the glory.

That is why people who love themselves are the ones who are always happy about their approach, they are fearless because they have nothing to worry & all to gain... Why wait now! Go do what you desire & make your daily life a dream because you can only do it in this life & you were born to live it up! They say “Good things don’t come to those who wait”, being different is not always wrong but come to think of it “also comes to those who make the first move”

I bet you a Million that everyone feels that normal is boring... anything outrageous stands to be cool, that is the reason why we watch those movies which are exciting, out of the box & simply unimaginable. All those things which are Hip are contrary to conventional as we define it. Anything simple is cool when done with flair! More so than usual the things come back in trend due to such people who make it Hip. So if you are that person who doesn’t like normal & doesn’t fit in because you are weird or crazy, especially if you don’t give a damn about what people think & do your thing with some sort of confidence which brings out your creative work to life which later on is appreciated then you usually have a chance that people start admiring you... People who have been eccentric are the ones who loved what they thought was right, kept being themselves not changing what people said or criticised because whenever you do something which is out of order then the world starts questioning or becoming opinionative about it, that is when you realise that you are different & that is the edge! Being nerdy is Hip because you make it Hip! You will never think but some things are successful even if they are the most bizarre of them all. It is Hip to be Square!

To love others you must first love yourself

I had a controversial story I was dwelling to share but maybe you need to wait for it, lets do this next Sunday?!

To Be Continued...

Father Nation & Sports SMILE

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Father Nation & Sports SMILE

It is an emotional day for me, I miss my Dad! He was the Educator of the lessons I learnt the hard way, he was the curator of the situations that I must live up to in life as I shall come to face them well. The love coming out of respect on how he taught me... how to never rest till you get enough.

We celebrate this to wish the great Papas of the world who sacrifice much to make their children shine. Happy Fathers Day!

The real story behind My Smile - as a teenager I needed to fix my smile, stop guessing it was because of my crooked teeth! I am glad we didn’t have social media in those days because I avoided showing my teeth, Our instagram posers will know that those who make effort to smile never have good pictures to post, its about being naturally captured as possible. So I remember my Dad used to take me to the dentist & when the gruesome process of extractions, RC, capping till retainers was over I came out with a pretty decent gummy SMILE. Just then my Dad said “Now you will get a Girl” haha...

I love you Dad for My Smile!

Today also marks the Super Sunday World Cup Cricket match... Father of matches where these 2 Nations are excited & crazy about the Win especially when the Neighbours come to play. India vs Pakistan has always been the main event! The centuries made & the Spirits light up brighter each minute into the game. While we enjoy the sport we are not only playing a world cup game, this is much bigger! It goes to the next level where players, audience, the entire country at large watch together for the Love of the Nation's WIN!

So Now I can SMILE J

  

Feelings over Facts

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Feelings over Facts

We are hypocrites with all the things mixed up when it comes to what we feel & what we show to the world... “sticks & stones can break your bones but words can never hurt you” more than you can imagine they might however roll with those verbal punches!

I shall start with a real story

My Friend - Alias “Sam” has been in a relationship since 7 years, the fact remains that never has it been that Sam didn’t get support from the partner however the reality is that Sam doesn’t have the feeling of excitement in the relationship! Now the fact again that Sam keeps getting all the support may it be emotional or materialistic however Sam feels why the hell do I need to be in this relationship... Now Sam is in a dilemma & keeps dwelling to make their life complicated just not focusing on the rights!

The Fact remains that any relationship which exists has its ups & downs. The basics - how you wish to enjoy the journey is what defines the Feeling, which is how happy you are in that moment...

It is about the sparks you need in the relationship, making effort to keep it alive which has to be from both sides... however it is about the most important thing that at the end of it you smile!

I believe we do things to show the world that we are happy even though we don’t feel the same from inside. We are a different person behind that smile. The world makes us do things which we don’t wish or don’t want however some are strong headed while others are not. The decisions we take are influenced by lot of people around us or the fact that how we wish to be perceived in our social circle or the world at large! It also depends on where you stay because of some reservations or conservative societies don’t allow people to be as they wish! Do what you feel is right, what makes you happy because you will never regret you made a bad choice as you tried...

So don’t be a Hypocrite & pretend what you are not! Go out there & make a decision... Live your life to the fullest everyday!

“For the Love of Feelings over Facts”

Uncomplicated

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Uncomplicated

Simple things in life are the most beautiful! How you appreciate them is up to you. I have a rule that I follow which kind of works for my peace of mind, “Uncomplicate the hell out of everything” So in a matter of speaking you just need to be honest to yourself & not care of what is coming next. First thing when you wake up in the morning is the choice which you of course have to make everyday - How do you wish to feel? So usually more often you try to tell yourself… No matter what I will find a reason to smile. However it isn’t that simple because behind that smile is lot of effort, struggle to ensure you have a great one!

The next step is again easy but complicated… If you want to make a change or do something different or new, maybe just do something outrageous that you so wanted is a step you have to take, Now to do that you also need to “not care a damn of what the world thinks” if you do something which is not like you. Haha I am sure you know this is not easy… With all the social circle, social media, family, friends etc what will they think?! Because you find yourself being judged & how will you be perceived from your existing self today, what if I am not accepted or how will I take the rejection… It all comes down to Sweet Failure which if you haven’t tasted then you won’t be able to experience the pleasure of the Victory!

My story of blogging started from the simple fact that I enjoy it & it puts a smile on my face & maybe in future I write a controversial book for everyone to enjoy, I had written something a few years ago after which I felt maybe I have a desire to write & share my thoughts or life experiences. Why not come out of the closet & do something about it! So here I am arjunthestoryteller

It is ok to fail because the one who tries & has the perseverance to make effort always comes closer to success. The guy who never tries also never gets to know if what they want is ever going to be possible. Truth about life is that we make stories about what won’t be possible which are not real because the irony is that we never even tried so how do we know if it is possible or not…! Otherwise it will be as Disappointing as the Game of Thrones Finale which I am sure nobody is able to get over...

When you come back to reality you realise that nothing is more important but to find any stupid reason to Smile.

For the Love of Uncomplicating the Hell out of Life!

(like an Uber App, it is beautifully simple & easy to book a ride)